Choosing Joy
Tuesday, November 25, 2014
Saturday, February 22, 2014
A Wonderful Day
Today was a wonderful day. I haven't posted in a really long time and I will do a catch up soon since this is one of my goals but I really wanted to record today. Nothing spectacular or out of the ordinary happened, today is Saturday and my day off but it was a pratically perfect day. Ryan and I had so much fun playing with his blocks, playing hide and go seek, and having a dance party! I was also able to catch up on some housework, laundry, clean the bathroom and vacuum too! AND I didn't feel like I had to compromise between spening time with Ryan or having a clean house. I even cooked a healthy lunch and dinner. The best part was before bed when Ryan was actually laying still on top of me on the couch before bed and we read a couple of books together and Skyped Joey. I felt so complete, happy and accomplished in that moment. I wouldn't trade it for anything. I have the cutest, most handsome amazing kid on the planet. He has an amazing silly personality and I can't wait until he starts talking. I am very grateful to be his mother.
Sunday, December 16, 2012
Wearing Pants to Church?
The Facebook event, Wear Pants to Church Day states:
"The creators of this event are feminists. This event is the first act of All Enlisted, a direct action group for Mormon women to advocate for equality within our faith. We do not seek to eradicate the differences between women and men, but we do want the LDS Church and its members to acknowledge the similarities. We believe that much of the cultural, structural, and even doctrinal inequality that persists in the LDS church today stems from the church's reliance on – and enforcement of – rigid gender roles that bear no relationship to reality. See:http://www.ldswave.org/In the link their reasons are further explained and a list of inequalities is included. I also read a few responses and thoughts of others as I have pondered over these things.?p=402"
I began my reading with Middle-aged Mormon Man since we're facebook friends and I first heard about the event through him. I also read this blog post I found, this one and assorted news and thoughts from others. As a result I have a couple of my own thoughts to add.
First of all, things I know and believe:
- I know my Heavenly Father has a plan. I know his plan is extensive and that His organization of His church is part of that plan.
- I believe gender is important. Men and women are different and their differences need to be acknowledged and used as strengths not smoothed over to make everyone the same.
- Individuals do not fit into perfect molds. Not everyone is the same. We have different strengths and weaknesses on purpose to fulfill our roles in life. We struggle with different things that shape who we are. It would be boring if we were all identical.
- Our purpose in life is go through tests and trials to become better people and to learn as much as we possibly can.
- The purpose of going to church is to learn about the gospel of Jesus Christ. By doing so I learn about my Savior and become a better person because I want to be like Him.
About what to wear to church: "You’re welcome to wear any clothes that you feel comfortable attending a church service in. Men typically wear suits and ties, and women wear dresses or skirts. Children also usually dress up." and "Attending church is about worship and learning to be followers of Jesus Christ, LDS spokesman Scott Trotter said Tuesday in a statement. Generally church members are encouraged to wear their best clothing as a sign of respect for the Savior, but we don't counsel people beyond that."(link here)
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is precise when it is important (No alcohol, tobacco, drugs, sex outside of marriage etc.) but has guidelines when it is ultimately up to the individual and the family (how to keep the sabbath day holy, what media to allow in the home, etc). What one wears to church does not matter. One's best is subjective and cannot be measure by comparing one to another. The gospel of Jesus Christ is more comprehensive than clothing, cliques, culture and rules. The gospel of Jesus Christ is love. Mark 12:30-31 Love the Lord thy God and love your neighbor. When we are doing this we know what is important, we nurture and embrace people and the individuals they are. We need to support and uplift each other because we are all doing our best and struggling with our own trials invisible to the naked eye.
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Survival Mode
Of course it's not all bad. Counting the negatives never helps a situation. We are blessed to have student loans that cover our housing, blessed to be welcoming our baby boy in March and blessed to have a job (even if it is at Walmart ;) Blessed that Joey loves his program and knows so much about it. Blessed to have a testimony and to attend a church where I can continually learn and be uplifted by wonderful people who love Jesus Christ. Blessed to
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Because I Choose To
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Movin' Right Along!
Another reason I'm glad we are moving is that my family will be coming up to help us! Mom and Benjamin get here tomorrow then my Dad, Aunt Glenda and Uncle Brian will be here on Saturday! I haven't seen most of them since Mother's day. We were able to spend some time with Uncle Brian's family 2 weeks ago (If I'm calculating correctly). There were able to swing into town on their way home from Ida's college orientation and some KC fun. We went out to lunch and had a good ol' time!
So here's to new beginnings, happiness and stress for this week. Hopefully we can fit a little joy in there as well :)
~Brianna
Thursday, June 21, 2012
Choosing Joy
I want to choose JOY! And I do believe it is a choice. The choices we make have consequences that will lead us to happiness or sorrow. I was looking at my Pinterest quotes for inspiration and I found two pins that really inspire me for beginning this blog as well as a direction for my life.
The first pin and inspiration for the title:
“I don't want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully, tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails. I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp. I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbors children. I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping to weed someone's garden. I want to be there with children's sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friend on my shoulder. I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived.” -Marjorie Pay Hinckley